We live in joint family with my in-laws. Apart from my husband's parents, his four brothers and two sisters are family. All five brothers are married. Iftar is a rota. The first of Ramazan my MIL makes the Iftar, then the eldest brother's five, then the wife of number two, and then me, (hubby is number 3 among the five), and so on. His sisters aren't married but they also make Iftar,so it is a neat arrangement.